Tuesday, May 17, 2022
Monday, May 16, 2022
November 22, 1925 was the day Natacha's dogs made news. Both Natacha and Rudy made bitter comments about their separation and it is not, imo a simple story. So many factors factoring in. But the press seized on her calling her dogs her "babies" and that was the theme in the syndicated articles. I think it unfair the press does not mention the stature of her career which they demean. When Valentino met Rambova she was working on DeMille and Nazimova projects, placing her at the top of her field and a success at a young age. But imo her marriage to Valentino cost her that career but she could not see that here. Love is blind.
Saturday, May 14, 2022
I will admit I really felt the podcast we just posted on the Pink Powder Puff Editorial. The bullying aspects of the entire incident are something all too familiar to us. Baltasar Cue called it Valentino's "transcendental anguish", a phrase we understand.
It was all too easy to mock Valentino during that summer of 1926 and this snarky cartoon (see below) is a prime example I think. Mocking his line in the sand and his, "I'm mad as hell and I am not going to take it anymore".
I guess the joke is that editors are notoriously scrawny so now they have to beef up to defend their writing. I wonder if Valentino saw this cheesy and insulting cartoon which demeans his reaction entirely.
It has been an interesting insight into Rudolph Valentino for me, to know the children and grandchildren of people he chose, admired, trusted and those he affected. I am now convinced you can know someone by knowing their children.
George Ullman's two children were serious, impeccably well-mannered and gracious hosts always. I did change their lives in a way because when I came along they did not really know the details of their father's executorship. Bob Ullman was determined I find the records so they could know the truth. As the truth rolled out, they learned a real truth about the injustice done to their father. They told their father's story with curiosity.
Frank Mennillo's family were Italian hosts of the highest order; gregarious, very upbeat and fun. They invited me out to eat, entertained me once with a BBQ and bottomless drinks. They put on the dog and I could see that Frank's generosity with Valentino was a family tradition of generosity. They told Frank's story with love and gusto.
Norma Niblock's children were extremely intelligent in the process. Both were ready with new things to tell me and many times they fine-tuned or expanded on things they told me previously. They really tracked everything well and the book excels for their great desire to tell this story. Sally an engineer, a designer and Roger a military mind certainly made the book magic. They told their mother's story with precision.
But it speaks well of Rudolph Valentino I think, that all of these families were great people to work with. He was very savvy about character.
Friday, May 13, 2022
Interviewing Norma Niblock's two children was thoroughly enjoyable. Each of them had a different way of reminiscing and we worked out our interviews around that.
Sally lives a long ways away from me and there were time changes to calculate. So we set up a routine of my calling at the same time, in the late afternoon. She would be excited to answer my questions and would talk about 45 minutes before she was done.
Roger wanted to be called in the morning. He could talk longer and gave me his cell number in case I had any questions for him and he was out. During our first two calls, he told me in great detail his military history.
When I had 20 pages or so for them to read, I sent the packages off. I called after they read them and we went over any changes. Sally, for instance told me that her parents only rented the Saticoy ranch when I had them owning the property.
They both read the manuscript before it became a book and were very excited and pleased about the outcome. These adorable tykes waited a lifetime to tell their Mama's story. Here with their beloved father, Holland. 1933.
Thursday, May 12, 2022
In the twenty-two years I have been researching Valentino, many personalities have come along, some have stayed and some have departed. I am asked often about one of those personalities, Hala Pickford. Her's is a story not quickly or lightly told, but I am working on it at least from my viewpoint and the court records which are on file.
When last I had any contact with her, some seven years ago, she had just received a new name and legal identity, based on what happened to her at the hands of those she called, "The Kookies". And particularly because of her legal involvement with Tracy Terhune, who she called, "King of the Kookies".
As I mentioned her in a comment about women Terhune has trashed, I began to think of the incredible price she paid.
I think she was about 30 years old when she was driven into bankruptcy court because Terhune sued her for defamation (after she sought a restraining order against him). Hala could not afford a lawyer and lost the defamation case after receiving bad free legal advice and missing court dates. She owed Tracy Terhune some $130,00.00 She had nothing. After she became suicidal with the hopelessness, she ran away and home to family.
Terhune will tell and has told a different story. He will pound his bible, telling everyone how the judge in the case he brought against Hala Pickford said he never read such horrible defamation as Hala's blog. What Terhune does not say is that he was worse, way worse and Bret was in over kill on Hala. I read everything they wrote about her and it was the worst bullying rhetoric I have ever read. Ungodly. She fought back and wrote and wrote and wrote. What Terhune also does not say is that he went into that court room with his fancy lawyer, knowing she could not afford any legal representation. Shooting fish in the barrel is what he was doing.
And when Terhune tells people he won big over her, he did not. The court records I do have reveal that of the $130,000 Hala owed Terhune, he settled... after her bankruptcy... for about 2500.00 and I do not know if he even got that.
I do not know Hala's new name. No matter how things ended between the two of us, she never deserved what they did to her. Never. And when Terhune whines about that "Forewarning" I wrote long, long ago, this is what I was reporting on, this is what I desperately hoped would cease and this is the story I wanted to expose.
I share two pages from the manuscript I have been working on about this important story from the Valentino world.
Wednesday, May 11, 2022
Tuesday, May 10, 2022
One of the more exceptional photographs in Norma Niblock's archive was the image of all of the 88 contestants. I included the entire span of this image in the book but here share a clip. Norma is circled but I think some of the other contestants are interesting to notice. The original photo in her collection is about a foot and half long and has survived the years rather well. Norma is easy to spot because of the way she tips her head which is unique to her.
I learned a great deal more about Norma researching the book than I knew when I wrote Affairs Valentino many years ago and I am happy I was able to expand and fine tune to a high degree the true story of this remarkable woman.
Monday, May 9, 2022
How thrilling for me to find this little card in Norma Niblock's archive. (see below) Her identification card which allowed her to board a train for the final pageant in New York, with "dining car" privileges! I knew George Ullman devised this method and I cite from his memoir, page 30:
“The railroad executives were most cooperative. I did not want to send the winning beauty contestants either the money or the tickets for their railroad fare, simply because I thought that some of the girls might use the money (or convert the tickets) and fail to appear in New York City at the required date. So I arranged with the various railroad executives to allow the conductors on the trains to accept the girl’s signatures in lieu of cash or tickets. All of the girls got to New York in time.”
* Norma would not take the train to New York and drove herself, with her mother from Toronto. A wonderful find in her papers and photos and which I share in the book. (front and back)
I would ask those who feel compelled to send in comments that are mean-spirited, know-it-all nonsense... this question. If you feel I am so inept and bad at what I do, then why do you spend all day and night glued to this blog? May I suggest you go find some more pleasant activity?
I do not need your patronizing lectures about how the Valentino marriage was “arranged”. How utterly ill-informed is that? That is dark ages material at this point. I do not need to be taught about copyrights, cut and paste and how to improve my colorizing. Especially from you folks.
You... who wholeheartedly reject and censor all of our hard work, our efforts and yet watch us all day long picking at us non-stop. Today Renato made a comment. He said, “Your blog is not a spittoon.”
Some one of you today wrote something about your decades of Valentino study. I ask when did that begin and end? I assume it ended long before Renato and I came along because you are not studying so hard now. Your main effort seems to be doing all you can to bury everything we do.
So save your time with your fake magnanimity, because I reject your continued bullying, your patronizing conceit and your comments dripping in malice. I do not need your help and I think if you take a tiny step back you will see that the opposite is true.
You present yourselves as if you are the authorities with your very transparent offers to “dialogue”? How would that be a thing when nothing has changed? Let me be the first to tell you... that there is life outside of bullying Evelyn and Renato Floris. Maybe look into that.
Sunday, May 8, 2022
The beauty of Mineralava as defined by Rudolph and Natacha with Argentine orchestra. This photo sent to me some time ago from a very generous friend, who sent me so many photos over the years and who I refer to in my books as "the London Archivist". Thank you! I watermark my colorized images because if I don't I have learned that they can appear on Tracy Terhune's two Facebook groups, Mad About the Boy and We Never Forget... while they always forget to attribute my colorizing, etc. Copyrights on these original images have expired, so I say the important thing is to enjoy them, not hoard them.
Friday, May 6, 2022
Thursday, May 5, 2022
In regards to the comments being hidden on this blog, I say the following. Over the past months, the same people who have spent their days insulting us for years on end, discovered they could send in comments to me here, most of them as “anonymous”.
I have always understood why readers of this blog send in comments as “anonymous” because the moment their names are public, they come under the same type of online and vicious attacks as Renato and I do.
In order to decipher which comments are legitimate, I have to read all of the hate comments sent to disturb, insult and offend us.
I say directly that they are not “legitimate” comments because I have heard it all for years. I know who is writing it to me and their purpose is to hijack the honest dialogues on this blog to “stir the pot” as someone called it. I say they are sent in to push the pot over.
It is not that I am a “coward” as I was called by Ms. Cindy Martin for not publishing their comments. It is that I am just the opposite. How strong Renato and I are to even be functioning at this point after the 12 years and counting of these people's horrendous abuse.
For months, their comments have been dismissed by yours truly and most all have ended up in the trash file. But on blogger, there is an interface, as a record of all comments I have not approved, “Awaiting Moderation” and many of them have ended up there. As of today I have 487 of their comments.
This is not a Facebook group and is my private blog. Both Renato and I welcome and really enjoy honest, respectful dialogue and I think honest people know that. But I will not allow these trolls to use my blog as their platform to abuse us.
I make the following statement based on the history of these people and their all too familiar taglines. It makes no difference whether the authors of these comments are two of these people or one or all, this has been their familiar, collective campaign against us for many years. These people are no longer so mysterious and although they have used aliases and anonymous to force me to read their comments, they are: Cindy Martin/Donna Hill/Mary O'Bannon, Tracy Ryan Terhune, David Bret/Albert Morris/etc., Simon Constable/Etienne, etc.,/Eleanor Gribbin.
Here follows a few comments sent in for publication which I grabbed out of the “awaiting moderation” file today.
Tuesday, May 3, 2022
Monday, May 2, 2022
In 1925, Norma Niblock was hired to tour upstate New York in a promotion of the film, "Rudolph Valentino and His 88 American Beauties." The short run tour was organized as fashion shows with a sort of vaudeville flare which would take place before the showing of the film before a full feature movie.
Two years after her win in New York City, Norma was still a household name and would headline the show. The fact was the tour was produced to promote the new Crystal Beach Park Ballroom on Lake Erie. The owners of the new ballroom were eager to launch their own tradition of beauty pageantry and what better way than to associate with Valentino and his 88 beauties.
While the tour fell apart within a few weeks, the ballroom survived the years. I wonder if anyone visiting the ballroom knew of its connection to Rudolph Valentino.
This ad (see below) announces the showing which took place in Dunkirk, New York at The Safe Store.
Sunday, May 1, 2022
I like to focus on the heroes of the Valentino world. Perhaps because I am more drawn to the lighter side of life. I am too sensitive for anything else.
Norma Niblock, Heroine and Leonard De Fonte Hero...two icons whose lives were directly impacted by Rudolph Valentino. George Ullman, Natacha Rambova, Frank Mennillo; hero stories imo. They were all honest, truthful and serious people.
I will stay with the truthful heroes and their high integrity and do my best to keep all things shiny; especially Norma's lustre. Sally told me once that her mother had beautiful skin saying, "It was like ivory." So time to focus on the light and on Norma. Cin! Cin! to the heroes!